Well I took a little break from blogging this weekend because our family went to visit my mother and two older brothers in Bakersfield this weekend. The kids had a three-day weekend and it was a relatively light schedule as far as children's activities go. James was home and didn't have Guard duty. Unfortunately, we didn't get over for a visit this Christmas break. And the kids and I were in need of a "Nonie" fix. ☺
Justina did have a basketball game Saturday morning and then a birthday party to attend in the afternoon which ended at 3:00 p.m. So the plan was to leave no later than 4:00 in order to make it over to Bak-o by dinnertime. While Justina was at her birthday party, James and I cleaned out the pit . . er, I mean . . . my car. James even busted out the shop vac and vacuumed! The car was loaded and James picked up Justina. The trash and dishwasher were emptied. The rabbit and guinea pigs fed and their water was topped off. We filled up with gas, oil, and windshield washer fluid, and away we went. To my amazement, we actually left on time!
We got to Bakersfield around six, and drove the Residence Inn. We checked in, unloaded, and set up the sofa bed for Justina and the portable crib for Abby. (I am so glad we did this ahead of time. We normally go to the house first and the hotel later when we are all too tired and cranky - by that point- to deal with all that.) We love staying at the Residence Inn because they have a two-room suite that can sleep all of us for the price of two connecting rooms anywhere else and they take pets. I grabbed Abby's pajammies and off we went to Nonie's house.
I have to say that I absolutely love Abby's age (with the exception of the screaming phase, but more on that later). The toddler years are filled with something new everyday. They learn new things everyday - new movement, new concepts, new words (some of which you don't want them to learn). And it is so fun to watch another one of our offspring get excited about visiting their grandparents to the point of saying their name over and over and over again until you arrive.
We had a wonderful dinner. Uncle Chris grilled a few racks of lamb. And it was so delicious. Abby really enjoyed the bones. After dinner, Mom introduced me to her computer Scrabble game. Great! Another word game for me to get addicted to! LOL! We played a game and then realized that we needed to get going. We got back to the hotel around midnight. It was nice to put the kids in beds already made up.
The next morning, we filled up the car and headed over to Nonie's for breakfast. I got the portable crib set up for Abby's naptime and toss in the laundry from yesterday. We had waffles, scrambled eggs, bacon, and orange juice. After that, more Scrabble on the computer. Uncle Chris ventured out for the board game and we played a game of that with Nonie, Uncle Chris, Alyssa, and me. Justina kept score. We also watched the New England-San Diego and Green Bay-Giants games. After dinner, I gave Abby a bath and dressed her in her pajammies. I packed up the portable crib, a half-case of Big Head Red vino, and a box of oranges in the car.
I was hoping to leave by seven but the Green Bay-Giants game went into overtime. So I had to settle for 7:30 instead. I didn't want to get back too late. We made it home by 9:30 p.m. And much to the older children's dismay, I cracked the whip to unload the car and put everything away when we arrived. Normally, we just pull into the driveway and go to bed. The car gets unloaded eventually . . . several weeks later. But the whole process of unloading the car and putting everything away took 15 minutes, including tossing Marshall's blanket in the wash. This morning when I got in my car, it was wonderful to see it clean. So I can deal with their disappointment. LOL! Overall, it was a wonderful visit with Nonie, Uncle Chris, and Uncle Pat Pat.
I wish we could have stayed longer. But a few years ago, we visited one of the grandparents' houses (which one I cannot remember) on a Labor Day weekend. For some reason, we had to come back on Sunday night. We discovered that having that full day at home was better than coming back late on the Monday night and having to get tired and cranky kids up and driven to school by tired and cranky parents. We stumbled on that and have tried to stick to it when we have to travel during the school year. If it is a two-day weekend when we are visiting then we like to get home early in the evening on that Sunday. As much as we enjoy visiting our families, spending the week after, recovering from the long drive and late night arrivals ends up defeated the whole point of the trip. I guess it is quality and not quantity as one might put it.

In Other News . . .
On Friday night, Alyssa's team played Templeton High School at home. Alyssa was the starting keeper and St. Joe's won 3-0. This game was a make-up from a rain cancellation. They will play Morro Bay at home on Tuesday and then Templeton again on Thursday in Templeton.
Abby started a mommy-and-me gymnastics class this morning. It is a small class to begin with. And because it was a holiday, she was the only one there. This was perfectly fine with me. She got to do some climbing, jumping, walking on the little balance beam, and playing on the trampoline. She also got to meet her teacher. So next week when the other children are there, she will have a little familiarity.
After that I ran Marshall up to Kittenkapoodle Pet Grooming in Arroyo Grande for a much needed bath. He was like a new dog! Dana did such an awesome job. Of course, this is not Marshall's favorite place to go. So he was happy to see me and get home.
Alyssa had soccer practice this morning and then hung out with her friend Penelope for most of the day. Justina had soccer practice also. It did rain earlier today and it was sprinkling this evening. We had a dinner guest tonight. Amanda's "friend" Colin came over for an unpretentious dinner of pizza and salad. They watched a movie in the family room afterwards. James and I enjoyed a glass of wine in the next room.
Well, that's it for now. Until the next time keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars!